Secrets that shouldn't be kept

I wonder sometimes, why that people tends to kept secrets that they shouldn't keep? I mean, the secret, is actually a fact, a truth that will hurt someone, closed to the beholder. But then, they ought to know right? This is just bugging me and really burns my nerves.

Someone, had a reason. The reason is that the truth is kept secret because once it is revealed, everyone who knows the truth (especially me) will lose a friend. Hey, whats the big deal there? I know that non that I cared, will hurt me as being told. So, if the truth is so devastating, then that 'friend' might as well just be ignored. Why, someone that will hurt you badly, be a friend of you? If they are not going to treat you as a friend would be, then THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND aren't they?

So, thats the thing that bugs me here. Particular someone, tries to keep the truth (which is related to me, somehow) from me, and gives me the reason that I WOULD BE VERY SAD, HURT, AND LOSE A FRIEND. I say, whats the big deal? BECAUSE EVERYONE THAT I CARED ABOUT, WOULD NOT HURT ME, AND THOSE WHO WILL HURT ME, ARE NOT MY FRIENDS. Thats what I am saying, and I still can't figure it out whats the matter of telling me? I really hate the feeling of not knowing something, that is related to me, and saddening.

And, I don't really hope the beholder to be the tragic hero like the movies or the dramas. WE ARE HERE IN A REALITY THAT EVERYONE NEEDS EACH OTHER SO TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE. I dont understands the reason, or the value there, keeping the truth from others and be sad for your own. Thats not helping others, that is just particularly pushing others to dangers. Why choose to let the bad ones go free, and sacrifice those who are good? Why choose not to tell truth to me, if it is related to me? THIS MEANS THAT I WOULD BE MORE SAD WHEN I REALLY KNOW THE TRUTH WHICH I OUGHT TO KNOW EARLIER! Then what happens when I knew it? Blame the beholder? The the beholder would lose another friend because of a bad choice. I don't hold any grudge or anger towards the beholder. I AM JUST SAD BECAUSE YOU NEVER TELL ME THE TRUTH! AND YOU CHOOSED NEVER, EVER, TO TELL ME!!! AND WANTS ME TO FIND IT OUT SOMEDAY!! THAT WOULD BE TOOOOO LATE!!!!!

"We are not the hero/heroin here. We don't keep truth that will hurt others. If we knew some secrets of others, we keep, but we are not going to keep truth and facts that will just bring sadness to the one we cared and loved."